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ratings: ★★★★☆ (4.3/5)
Genre: Psychology, Dreams, Family Therapy, Spirituality

Book Review:
Edward Bruce Bynum's ''The Dreamlife of Families'' is a profound and illuminating exploration of a dimension of family life that is rarely discussed but deeply influential: the shared world of our dreams. Bynum, a clinical psychologist with a wealth of experience, makes a compelling case that our most intimate nocturnal experiences are not merely individual phenomena, but are interwoven into the larger ''family unconscious.''

As Robert Moss, author of Conscious Dreaming, writes in his endorsement, ''Healthy families dream together.'' This is the central, heartening thesis of the book. Bynum carefully amasses evidence from clinical science, parapsychology, and ancient dream traditions from around the world to show that family members dream of each other and for each other. He grounds this study in an understanding of the vital, evolutionary role of dreaming itself.

The book explores how this shared dreamlife reveals itself in various ways: in family and personal illnesses, in nightmares and unusual dreams, and during critical times such as pregnancy, crisis, and medical emergencies. It also sheds light on those profound, often-reported experiences where a person dreams of a family member saying goodbye, only to discover they have passed away in the night. Bynum explains such phenomena through the concept of a shared field or hologram, where each family member is enfolded into the dreams of the others.

Drawing on clinical case studies from his own Family Dream Research Project, Bynum shows that this intimate labyrinth of dream life is constantly flowing beneath the surface of our waking lives, shaping our relationships and our deepest experiences. Crucially, he reveals how dreams can serve as both healing factors and diagnostic signals, and how dreamwork can be a powerful tool in both family and couples therapy.

''The Dreamlife of Families'' offers readers a unique opportunity to identify personal and family patterns, to heal on a ''psychospiritual'' level, and to deepen their understanding of their own minds. It is a wise, heartening, and fascinating book that will appeal to therapists, students of consciousness, and anyone curious about the hidden connections that bind us to our loved ones, past, present, and future.